Originally Posted by
Elite_Pie
Vlad's ban is a difficult one. While it's never good to see a prolific poster red carded, there is a line to draw and I don't think this is the first time Vlad has crossed it. The bloke just can't seem to control his anger if he thinks he has been insulted. If a few words from an anonymous poster can get you that worked up it's probably best he's gone for everyone's sake. For all the arguments I've been involved in I have been called far worse than I've called others. The mods have an impossible job in that they'll never please everyone, but if they let this one go it would lead to open warfare.
ps Thanks to sid - I have a close family member who suffers from depression and I've always struggled to understand why. On the face of it they have an ideal life but still the dark clouds descend regularly. I realised long ago that the 'look on the bright side' approach doesn't work, so I've ordered the book by Matt Haig sid mentioned (it's actually titled 'Reasons to stay alive') in the hope I can understand them better. Finally, sincere condolences to Grantham - you are living my worst nightmare. I can't think of anything worse than having to bury your own child. I genuinely hope you manage to come through it.