Of course it has something to do with me - you're in the same online community.
Just ask someone in your own house to read what you write and ask them whether or not your tone is aggressive and unpleasant. All you seem to be concerned with is whether you are right or wrong.
And you're the one who came on here 4 or so weeks ago promising to set a high standard of polite discourse. I am sorry, Mr Airborn, but you have missed your own criterion.