OK respond to this if you have a mind to and I would be greatful of your feedback as it's been getting my goat all day today
I went to a house dinner party last night
Nice dinner and all that chit chat stuff.
I mentioned a good mate of mine who was black and was our little towns best DJ at the time.
I was in a nightclub where he and I used to often go. It was often dark in there and was when he tapped me on the arm and said hello (bearing in mind he was shoulder height to me, as in short). He did this three times and I looked round to see who it was before he smiled and I then recognised his teeth glowing in the dark. He and I laughed about it as it is a funny story.
One person at this party last night decided to think I was being racist. I said it wasn't racist as he was my mate of many years and he found it funny too.
Well she never agreed so I said his name is Brown (it is Brown) so by calling him by his name am I also being racist. Obviously I am sarcastic at this point.
I am now thinking I won't be able to be in that persons company again for fear of being labelled further.
Any opinions?