I hardly ever see the word '***ist' or similar terms applied to arguments on here, or anywhere else for that matter. You'll get lots of extremes on twitter where million contribute but they'll only be a small representation of the real population. In my experience, I nor any other posters on here use the '***ist'/racist' labels, and you're more likely to be met with anything other than general disagreement for any opinion on male v women's football.
I think what you're confusing is that a challenge to the arguments that you and others have put forward on this thread = you and them being called '***ist'. We can disagree with you without labelling you. I appreciate your point of view, just don't agree with it is all. No ***ism involved any which way.