CAM, on discussing wenduns no show, I stated to sota that having offered up all of the information to meet etc and wanting to bring along his Brother and not showing, that it was indeed one of two things:
1. Something personal stopped him showing,
2. If he really is another multi then he's a cu**. I'd like to think it was point number 1 and trust all is well for him.
As for the day out, sota and myself covered some old grounds and it brought back loads of memories for us both. Thoroughly enjoyed it!