Grist I think you're right....check out his eyelashes
https://youtu.be/yAm94uLba80
Also notice the box of 'Sugar Puffs' says it all really.....
Well that would do for most reasonable people.
I personally do not give a toss how I am addressed - no matter how dolled up I am.
It seems that minorities are in the wrong for being oversensitive about this sort of thing (although - as I said before - I wonder how bothered most of them are) yet some "normal" people can go into meltdown if they don't get the address they like.