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frogmiller
29-12-2017, 11:26 AM
Yesterday evening was a bit of a shocker. Maybe a bit too much mulled wine or too much of the family getting on your nerves and people using this board to get things off their chest.
Whatever the reason it wasn't very good.

Things have changed on this board over the last couple of years that have seen a reduction in members posting. Whether that be the changes in the site itself or because of how I and CAM moderate.
In all seriousness we shouldn't have to moderate in the way I did last night. We both hate issuing cards and closing threads but sometimes we take decisions that you may not like for what we see as the best thing for the site as a whole at the time.

We have seen a raise in posters of late not coming on every day but members who haven't posted for a while making the odd appearence. This won't continue if there are many more repeats of last night.

I have tried to crack down on goading and another pet hate of mine is ganging up on a particular member in the way it happened last night. But don't mix this up with a lot of poster all disagreeing with the same post. This will always happen and is accepted as long as the insults are kept to an acceptable limit. If you can't work out the acceptable limit I'm willing to help.

To read something we disagree with doesn't merit an insult. Question what you don't agree with but why insult someone for the way they see things.

Let us move on from here and try to get on. If you don't like something and you're not able to respond without insulting then simply don't respond.

Pocket rocket
29-12-2017, 11:38 AM
Agree 100%

wrinkly
29-12-2017, 11:49 AM
Yes - all got a bit handbags on here last night. I thought you nipped it in the bud frog, before it got even more daft. Not sure about the ganging up bit though. My impression was that it was a bit 6 and 2 3s. Good bit of modding anyway.

caytonmiller
29-12-2017, 11:49 AM
Sad you felt the need to post this frog. adults (use the term broadly) should be able to have a conversation without insults and if a conversation does get heated the perpetrators should hold there hands up and apologies. Very rarely seen on here.
Let's hope hope 2018 brings a clean slate though I'm not holding my breath

millertop
29-12-2017, 12:33 PM
Clearly that’s why some come on here just to insult, some can’t take their drink probably, some might need a sad lamp, might be that time of month for others.

I find some of it funny, others go too far for no reason.

I can’t understand why some leave the board though just because of a few numpties, just don’t read a certain thread, ignore the certain poster but don’t leave just because the minority upset you.

Have a happy new year apart from Cayton ;D

caytonmiller
29-12-2017, 01:38 PM
Ooooower look who's getting jealous just cos me n yak got a room.
Ok you can hold that camera. Just remember all you need is a steady hand

Silly-miller
29-12-2017, 01:40 PM
I agree frog lots of handbags out last night lol

Sometimes I think they needs to be more mods on the site because you seem to get it in neck from certain posters a lot and could use some support at times.

To be honest some of the **** you get I wouldn’t wish on my worst enemy.

Poor frog 😢

gm_gm
29-12-2017, 02:38 PM
I agree frog lots of handbags out last night lol

Sometimes I think they needs to be more mods on the site because you seem to get it in neck from certain posters a lot and could use some support at times.

To be honest some of the **** you get I wouldn’t wish on my worst enemy.

Poor frog ��

We need a mod for each poster, 3 for MMM and his Barnsley doppelgänger

Silly-miller
29-12-2017, 03:00 PM
We need a mod for each poster, 3 for MMM and his Barnsley doppelgänger

Lol

kentmillerman
29-12-2017, 05:38 PM
Good post frog. I in the past have been guilty of posting abuse to others, ie TFA. Long time ago though. Think the mods do a great job, as does TFA with the away travelling, and long may it continue. Lots of old posters missing. Shame. Hopefully.......

villamiller
29-12-2017, 05:59 PM
Good post frog, I have also been guilty of abuse ,remember when you red carded me for rising to that tw.at .....PLAY . Now he was a wind up merchant , look forward to your next visit pal ......think it’s your round 😎😎

Casper64Frank
29-12-2017, 06:14 PM
Good post frog, I have also been guilty of
abuse ,remember when you red carded me for rising to that tw.at .....PLAY . Now he was a wind up merchant , look forward to your next visit pal ......think it’s your round 😎😎

There's me thinking it was actually your round Villa.

PLAY is a decent bloke when you get to know him, true Millers supporter home & away for many years.

A decent site shouldn't need too much moderating, just tell each other to '**** off', go do one etc and don't carry it on & on & on, not too many people are really interested.
Then move on and forget about it, don't bear grudges, life's too short....AMEN.

villamiller
29-12-2017, 06:27 PM
There's me thinking it was actually your round Villa.

PLAY is a decent bloke when you get to know him, true Millers supporter home & away for many years.

A decent site shouldn't need too much moderating, just tell each other to '**** off', go do one etc and don't carry it on & on & on, not too many people are really interested.
Then move on and forget about it, don't bear grudges, life's too short....AMEN.
Talking of stalkers ,hows it going Casper ....don’t believe you know PLAY ....he was a good wind up merchant and I did have a bit of respect for him .....and I know it’s your round 🍺🍺🍺🍺

Casper64Frank
29-12-2017, 06:39 PM
Talking of stalkers ,hows it going Casper
....don’t believe you know PLAY ....he was a good wind up merchant and I did have a bit of respect for him .....and I know it’s your round 🍺🍺🍺🍺

I do know PLAY villa.
Can't grumble too much, arthritis is kicking in and I'm waiting to go on the waiting list for a new 'bionic' knee.
I will concede it's my round, you've put your hand in your pocket plenty of times in the past although not recently.

Ps....I'm quite good at stalking when I want to be....🍺🍺🍺

Pps....I don't tell lies....just bend the truth a little for some friendly fun...lol
I do know PLAY villa

crashbang
29-12-2017, 06:43 PM
Do like I do .
Think before you post .

villamiller
29-12-2017, 06:48 PM
I do know PLAY villa.
Can't grumble too much, arthritis is kicking in and I'm waiting to go on the waiting list for a new 'bionic' knee.
I will concede it's my round, you've put your hand in your pocket plenty of times in the past although not recently.

Ps....I'm quite good at stalking when I want to be....🍺🍺🍺

Pps....I don't tell lies....just bend the truth a little for some friendly fun...lol
I do know PLAY villa
It’s posters like you Casperfrank that keeps this board going ...and I hope you keep it up .....can you you remember gramiller ???....not heard from him for a long time

villamiller
29-12-2017, 06:50 PM
Do like I do .
Think before you post .
I also think it’s your round crash ......I got the last one ....😜😜😜

Casper64Frank
29-12-2017, 06:57 PM
Do like I do .
Think before you post .

Post of the month.

Expect compo to come on and ask if you've had too much vino lol.

I'm sure it was me that told you you're grandson would love his holidays at Chapel.

kempo
29-12-2017, 07:56 PM
Do like I do .
Think before you post .

Too much cheap red talking?

Scum-Triumphant
29-12-2017, 08:54 PM
I moderate the Facebook page with over 8k members and 12/13 year old kids act more grown up than on here and they interact happily with older men and women from all over rotherham and beyond. It’s not a happy utopia but it’s a wealth of information and knowledge. There’s wind ups and disagreements but rarely owt as childish or as embarrassing as I’ve seen on here.
Partly down to the lack of anonymity and multis being able to spotted straight away.

Likes of Villa are far too old for Facebook though. Please spare a thought for the werthers sucking, tartan rugged knee-d old gent. Millers Mad is where he gets his info. You lot are clogging up his fun with your pseudo-intellect and toys out the Pram.

villamiller
29-12-2017, 09:01 PM
I moderate the Facebook page with over 8k members and 12/13 year old kids act more grown up than on here and they interact happily with older men and women from all over rotherham and beyond. It’s not a happy utopia but it’s a wealth of information and knowledge. There’s wind ups and disagreements but rarely owt as childish or as embarrassing as I’ve seen on here.
Partly down to the lack of anonymity and multis being able to spotted straight away.

Likes of Villa are far too old for Facebook though. Please spare a thought for the werthers sucking, tartan rugged knee-d old gent. Millers Mad is where he gets his info. You lot are clogging up his fun with your pseudo-intellect and toys out the Pram.
I love scum .....and always will

crashbang
29-12-2017, 09:02 PM
Post of the month.

Expect compo to come on and ask if you've had too much vino lol.

I'm sure it was me that told you you're grandson would love his holidays at Chapel.


Yep my 3 grand kids love it .as do the rest of my family .

CAMiller
29-12-2017, 09:03 PM
It’s posters like you Casperfrank that keeps this board going ...and I hope you keep it up .....can you you remember gramiller ???....not heard from him for a long time

Gra looks in when he's not sunning himself in Cuba XD

Parkgate is one I'm worried about as he's posted his annual ornithological report by now. I know he was in poor health.

Scum-Triumphant
29-12-2017, 09:10 PM
I love scum .....and always will

Likewise mate.

Casper64Frank
29-12-2017, 09:58 PM
I love scum .....and always will



Likewise mate.

FFS pass me a sick bag....
I do hope Mrs villa knows your in love with someone else.

You two ought to go to Vegas & get married LOL.. ❤️❤️





Have a great New Year you two, all the best.

U.T.M.

Scum-Triumphant
29-12-2017, 10:02 PM
All the very best Casper. Catch up with you soon.

Casper64Frank
30-12-2017, 10:26 AM
Yep my 3 grand kids love it .as do the rest of my family .

That's what it's all about.
It's not where you go or what you pay it's the company you keep and the quality time you have with the kids / grandkids.
Love my grandkids, usually they all turn up all at once and our living room carpet looks like an oversubscribed crèche, love em to bits and very grateful when they go home so I can have my Horlicks and go to bed....and start it all off again the very next day.

EDIT : The " miserable cow" at No 3....I tried her....trust me you didn't miss out on anything.