Originally Posted by
soulman101
Thanks for all the birthday messages,I'll pass them on to James .
For those who don't know James's story .
12 years ago my wife and I had the call nobody would ever want to answer .
My wife's sister, James's mom, rang from the accident scene she was frantic and crying .
She told James had been hit on a crossing and knocked 30ft away by a van doing between 34 to 38mph .
She told us to make our way to B'ham childens hospital ,the air ambulance doctor had to put James in a indused coma .
When we got to the hospital the ambulance was landing .
After an hour the Brain surgeon called all the family into a room .
He explained James's chances were 100 to 20% of surviving a long operation and at that couldn't say what the output would be .
James got through the operation and was in a coma for 4mths ,we visited every day .
When he come round he couldn't talk or move his limbs , he just stared after a couple of weeks he could respond by blinking his eyes .
At 6mths he was transferred to Tadworth in Surrey for 6mths ,there was flats in the hospital for the childrens parents , James Mom and Dad stopped there for the duration . There was also a flat you could book for family members , we stopped seval times to give support .
James had to relearn how to move his limbs and fingers , he comunicated by blinking, after another 3 mths he could move a couple of fingers .
Then they was a great break through ,they taught him to use an artificial voice machine to talk to us , he was on his way back with his cheeky sense of humour .
The money raised on the mad board and a shout out to the London Baggies , paid for a lot of private massarges .
I think it was around 18mths when he could talk again and eat and drink , he had been fed via a tube into his stomach .
Then it was gradual progress , he went to a special school and passed his GCE's .
James is wheel chair bound but can walk a few steps ,with his Dad holding him up .
His Dad has cared for him 24hrs a day for the last 12 years .
But we are gratefull to everyone for saving him .
James is a happy polite young man , he does have downers sometimes when we are out and he see's people his own age with girlfriends
having fun etc .
He plays wheelchair football at the Albion foundation and goes to a place called the Hub a couple times a week for disabled young adults .
Sorry for the long post .