If only it was that simple to write out.
You missed off the PLO who were intent on removing Israel from 1954
The two state solution has been rejected many times by all the terror groups you mention, who have no interest in peaceful co existence and for them, only the obliteration of the Israeli state will do. Gaza was evacuated of Israeli citizena and removed settlers in 2005, To let them run themselves. They voted HAMAS in, who removed all democracy and used the finances to purchase weapons. Rockets upon rockets launched to provke Israel.
So when you say blame themselves, it is hardly that simple is it? It takes two to tango

