Originally Posted by
ramAnag
Having been corrected by MA I haven’t argued differently, GP...but really no one can sensibly argue that the ‘N’ word isn’t the most notoriously offensive of the words relating to black people.
I also remember my grandmother referring to a girl down the road who had just returned from sun kissed and (to me) exotic Jersey as looking like a ‘little picaninny’. She didn’t mean it offensively and it wasn’t taken as such in the mid sixties...but as you say, the nature and meaning of language changes. Even so, I can’t remember a time when ‘N****r’ was ever used anything but disrespectfully and insultingly, and that is surely the point.