Swale setup a "handbag" thread not long ago. I'm tempted to volunteer to move any (ir)relevant posts to it and take them out of general threads, but when it is a 1 to 1 issue I don't see why PMs can't be used.
Though of course this thread is easy to ignore from its title.
Right or wrong Elite always seems to be involved in these squabbles - a common denominator of some sort.