Hi Pat, you're totally right, a colour is just a colour. I agree most white people would'nt get offended by being called a racist name like "honkie" and i think the ones that would get offended are the ones who love a drama.
Honestly mate, the amount of shlt i get when my family go to Spain is beyond belief, my daughter wont go anymore because of it, she and one of my sons are blonde and blue eyed like me and my other 2 sons are dark complection and have all the Spanish features like the wife (shark lifeless eyes i call it, drives her mad)
the locals HATED me because i am married to one of their's. I hear them talking, calling me mestizo ingles ( english mongrel ) and my all time favourite is what the local shltheads called me polla blanca la comopierna de una moscs ( has a white dlck like a fly's leg ) which is funny as ****, wow i thought the curtains were closed
Dont get me wrong, for years i was plssed off because i wasnt seen as just me, they hated me because of England, the way our tourists treat them, drunken louts in england tops on the plss, their entire country thinks we are all like that. I couldnt give two ****s about skin colour but i hated it because i was hated because of a stereotype that had nothing to do with colour.
I suppose gingers hate that they all smell of piss kind of thing.
My stepdad always says, being called the "n" word has never bothered him, from a young age he was always taught that the word itself means nothing, but what you believe you are and what you answer to is all that matters.
I am completely against racism in the fashion that someone would be overlooked for a job because of their ethnicity and things like that, but actions and words are completely different things. If you cant deal with words then you may as well give up now because life is waaay harder than words