
Originally Posted by
CTMilller
All the very best, BOTN.
I left England for the first time in 1975 and made two failed attempts to live there again - the last in 1993 which lasted for two years. So, in the last nearly 50 years now, it’s been my home for just 5 1/2 years.
The main reason for moving overseas has always been for opportunities and doing something different rather than dissatisfaction with UK.
It’s always been very easy to be critical of my homeland (1975 with its 3 day weeks, power cuts and endless strikes would have been ample reason for saying ‘F*uck it, I’m off’) but I’ve felt quite strongly that it helps to try to keep a positive perspective on both the place you come from and the place where you happen to be.
The bars of the world are full of aging Englishmen drowning their sorrows together over the state of their home country and the crappy place in which they now find themselves living…
Nothing wrong with using disaffection with UK as a motivator for getting off your arris to make a move but don’t let that bitterness be the only driving force. The important point is to see both places as honestly as you can and embrace the positive about where you’re going.
It will not be easy, as others have said, however much the location is touted as a paradise, and moving there won’t solve all your problems.