Quote Originally Posted by caj85 View Post
TBF the meaning is "over emotional gay man" so is a bit offensive isn't it.

EDIT: It is also used derogatory to women as well.

Why would anyone want to use the phrase when there's plenty of other descriptions to use.
It's been in common use for my lifetime and not in the way you wish to interpret it:

"A person, esp. a woman or girl, who overreacts to a minor setback or who is prone to exaggeratedly dramatic behaviour; (also) a person who thrives on being the centre of attention."

So stop being such a drama queen.