Yes I can certainly sympathise with the situation.
Father in law – worked until 70, in his own business, posh house, nice cars and saved a few quid.
Lasted almost 8 years in a dementia care home at £1500/week ( Elderly Mental Impaired ) – initially funded by us and forced to sell his house.
Poor bloke thought he would be leaving about £600k to my wife , ended up with less than 2K ! AND she had to fight to get the money back we had paid up front initially. And had to make quick sale on house and lost out there as well.
So much for the golden generation ….
Makes me want to think about selling the house when I retire , live in a top luxury hotel somewhere nice and sunny until the cash runs out, then apply for social housing when I’m kicked out and on the streets.