
Originally Posted by
animallittle3
@ Wanchai
We became grandparents for the first time this week when my step daughter and her partner presented us with a baby boy .
The most wonderful gift you can ever receive .
However I worry and I have good reason to worry .
Her partner works his butt off at Amazon in Doncaster , he does everything he can to make ends meet , they don't go out , haven't a car , don't smoke and have never taken a holiday .
They live in privated rented over Kimberworth way , there's damp on the walls , repairs aren't forthcoming and they can barely afford the rent each month .
Just before the baby was born they received a letter telling them to vacate the property in 3 months time , a series of heated telephone exchanges had taken place about the damp on the walls with a new baby's arrival , the landlord has told them he's selling the property ........ hmmm .
Without our financial support they will go under and no family of mine or grandchild will ever have to end up like that while I walk this earth .
Now before anyone says anything our grandson wasn't planned , I'll spare the detail but it wasn't lack of common sense just one of those things .
They are desperate for some stability and security in their lives , a house they can turn in to a home and raise their child , a job that guarantees regular hours and provides a living wage , the company is successful and profitable to say the least .
The lad will do everything to stand on his own two feet , trust me he will , he doesn't want our financial support he wants to provide under his own efforts , the system says he can't .
This is 2019 not Victorian England .
Things need to change .