"Fluffing"
I know you're only 14 but do try to use words that other people use.*
Plus......when have I ever said anything about women only spaces?
You never miss an opportunity to make things up.
* Of course, if you really are 14 then I forgive you, but if you, and I strongly suspect this is the case, are middle aged and trying to be trendy, then you're an a'rse.