Dad had a visit every year from an force's charity called Blesma for disabled soldiers. British limbless ex service men's association
Dad never asked or received anything from them , but the same ex soldier came for many years and they spent a good couple of years having a chat, cup of tea and bite to to eat . I think he looked forward to the visit.
When the ex soldier died another one came right up to Dads death , they sent a lovely reef for Dads funeral and kept in touch with our Mom.