Quote Originally Posted by boingy View Post
I read an interesting blog by a woman some weeks ago. She was saying that women have caused a huge problem by only looking “outward” for causes of problems for women. Right from the first womens lib movement to now all the problems caused are everyone else’s fault. If there’s a problem in the marriage then he is a narcissist for example. She was saying that women have lost the ability to look at the possibility that they may be at fault for some problems. It was a fascinating read and I could see exactly what she was saying.
Don't doubt for one second that there is still plenty of ***ism and misogyny out there but agree with a lot of that-as do the majority of women I know! Tbh, again I think it's a generational thing as most of the ladies who tend to support this view are of a certain age and all over 30 for example!😀

There is this conflicting argument amongst women where one side argues for a level of tolerance around ***ual banter saying it is part of life and the other arguing that they are just saying this because they have been conditioned by men/society to accept such behaviour. Also, some women can better look after themselves when it comes to unwanted behaviour and call it out but plenty of others lack the confidence to and suffer. No easy answer except that maybe respect should be key to all relationships.