O/T RIP ChesterBenningtom

[crazyfists]

I'm happy to let it drop tarkers as the PP thread wasn't even falling out, I just said get out her @rse when she was shown to be lying and you told me to give a man a blowjob which got me mad, that was the end of it though and hasn't been mentioned again as a starting argument. It's interesting that you sarcastically mocked a nurse of nearly 4 decades (after she stook up for someone else being abused by you) and yet I need to grow up?

Any abuse Vlad got then he brought that on himself after months and months of abusing everyone else. To think he's illiceting any sympathy makes me laugh. If you give it then be prepared to take it. After his comment to Grantham then he's not worth anything in my eyes.

Anyway let's move on you're right.

[SolSigns]

No, you're right. It's entirely sensible that the redbutt who ruined their own board should have a say in what Notts moderators do on a Notts board. Can't think of anyone better to offer advice.

[Trickytreesreds]

No, you're right. It's entirely sensible that the redbutt who ruined their own board should have a say in what Notts moderators do on a Notts board. Can't think of anyone better to offer advice.

Totally misses the point
Why am I not surprised?

Whatever you thought of Vlad, is irrelevant

He offers many good topics and opinions.
He gets, much more flak than he gives.
As a result should have at least received a slap on the wrist if he reached the point of offence.
The choice is then his. Carry on and accept it, or tone it down.
I have done this much more than you sunshine. Usually receiving personal abuse in doing so.
I really don';t care as a rule.
Try dealing with 34 cat B prisoners daily, to understand what in your face abuse feels like.
Goodbye

[SolSigns]

Goodbye

Result!

[Trickytreesreds]

Result!

wow, delusional

[SolSigns]

Not even a man of your word. No surprise.

q: what do you call a moderator without a forum?
a: what do you call a ***oholic without a partner?

[crazyfists]

Vlad's ban is a difficult one. While it's never good to see a prolific poster red carded, there is a line to draw and I don't think this is the first time Vlad has crossed it. The bloke just can't seem to control his anger if he thinks he has been insulted. If a few words from an anonymous poster can get you that worked up it's probably best he's gone for everyone's sake. For all the arguments I've been involved in I have been called far worse than I've called others. The mods have an impossible job in that they'll never please everyone, but if they let this one go it would lead to open warfare.

ps Thanks to sid - I have a close family member who suffers from depression and I've always struggled to understand why. On the face of it they have an ideal life but still the dark clouds descend regularly. I realised long ago that the 'look on the bright side' approach doesn't work, so I've ordered the book by Matt Haig sid mentioned (it's actually titled 'Reasons to stay alive') in the hope I can understand them better. Finally, sincere condolences to Grantham - you are living my worst nightmare. I can't think of anything worse than having to bury your own child. I genuinely hope you manage to come through it.

Great book by Matt Haig, I read it every few months to remind myself how to get through everyday. Clinical depression is very difficult to understand if you don't experience it yourself and I've been told many times to just cheer up or repeatedly asked what's wrong. The answer is I don't know what's wrong or makes me feel like it, you just feel empty and numb inside. Dead really in all but movement. I take alot of medication but then some people like Matt Haig don't take any, it's all dependant on what gets you through the day the best. You get bad times though and good times so if you are dealing with someone who has depression then try not to kill them when they're doing your head in ha ha and in time they'll come out of that bad patch. True they might go into one again at any time but believe me when I say our support networks are our lifeline even if it might not seem like it sometimes.

[crazyfists]

All of the above have right-of-centre views of course which you have no tolerance of on here. Ban 'em all and the rest of you can have OT Leftie-love-ins and nod agreement with each other for two pages (two if you're lucky)

What a load of nonsense, on nearly every OT thread the right posters ALWAYS gang up together especially Vlad, Tricky and Tarkers often shouting down any opposition with verbal abuse. It came to the point I avoided OT threads as there was no point anymore as a sensible debate is beyond the above without resorting to verbals. Then the one thread Vlad gets told about himself (AFTER calling a bereaved parent a prick and numerous deleted posts) and all his little buddies start standing on their desks like dead poets society over him.

There's nothing worse than bullies who cry like babies when they get abit back.