Originally Posted by
Psaw
One of the tricks of bringing kids up is to let them make their own mistakes, and be around to pick the pieces up. Its how kids learn how the world works. If a parent dictates to a child because they know what the child is doing is wrong,wont work, the parent is cementing in maladaptive behaviour. And the child will do it anyway, and keep doing it.
In the same way, Daddy never EVER meant to hurt me, eventually I learned that a child cant survive in an adult world, no matter how much they want to.
l always welcomed him back.
I thought that Mummy would look after me, I was wrong........you know what a child abuser is called.
P.S, I have no money. But lets ignore that. And rub cream on my painful, distended anus. Entertainment of the highest order.
Nigel.