Im totally with you coco. There is a wonderful song by Ry Cooder called " This is how we make a broken heart" Its about a bloke, not a woman.

I was young and desperate, as we all are. She gave me the happiest 18 months of my life, and I am grateful for that. It wasn't lust alone, I was hopelessly attracted to her from the first second. Instant love does exist, I am glad I know what real love is.

I know what I put her husband through, I am truly sorry. I haven't shirked it, I have asked the higher power to serve me what I deserve, no questions asked, and I would take it gladly.

As I have my other sins.

In true repentance there is salvation. HE knows what is in my soul, whether I am sincere or not, and will act accordingly. What will be will be. I have played that song and broke my heart. For him.

Wilf of Bacoli.