I look after my own boys. I’ve never asked anyone for anything I’ve stood up to my responsibilities. When times have been tough I have made sacrifices. My son has just gone to university using the savings I’ve put together for him from the minute he was born. Some people do have bad luck I get it but to have children when you can’t afford it is the most selfish thing you can do. Let someone else pay for it is not the example to set to your children.