Try not to judge folk for not giving eye contact Nudge mi owd. Tha dunt always know what people's personal circumstances are and what might be behind it. For example, I have two autistic daughters who were born and bred in Barnsley. One of the many autistic traits across the wide spectrum is to not give eye contact. They both have that trait which causes them social problems at times. They're as good as gold though despite that. Not having a go, just trying to raise awareness. It dunt matter where tha from, people are people so like mindedness or general behavioural patterns is just a theory that doesn't really exist.