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    Quote Originally Posted by ramAnag View Post
    Is ‘we need to remember’ at all condescending? I don’t think so…just an observation about there being two sides to everything and if you think the ‘left’ are currently less tolerant then you clearly haven’t been following current affairs very closely over recent years.

    GP…as I remember it both sides of the example you quote - i.e. the miners and the police - were violent however, without going back forty odd years, I don’t recall anyone on the left trying to set fire to hotels full of migrants and I don’t recall Democrats in the U.S. storming Congress when Biden lost.
    Yes it is. I took it as such. It?s one of many such phrases I?ve encountered in industry used as tactics to influence the weak or waving. ?I?m sure we all agree that??, ?of course it?s a given that??, ?the smart moneys on??. You follow it up by making an assumption about my following, and understanding of, current affairs. I was trying to politely offer a different perspective in order to promote debate, please don?t provoke another tiresome to and fro

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    Quote Originally Posted by Andy_Faber View Post
    Yes it is. I took it as such. It?s one of many such phrases I?ve encountered in industry used as tactics to influence the weak or waving. ?I?m sure we all agree that??, ?of course it?s a given that??, ?the smart moneys on??. You follow it up by making an assumption about my following, and understanding of, current affairs. I was trying to politely offer a different perspective in order to promote debate, please don?t provoke another tiresome to and fro
    Well that’s me told. Apparently the fact that you ‘took it as such’ means that’s how it is. It doesn’t and you thinking it does seems a tad arrogant to me, but I really can’t be bothered with another ‘tiresome to and fro’ - as you put it - either.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ramAnag View Post
    Is ‘we need to remember’ at all condescending? I don’t think so…just an observation about there being two sides to everything and if you think the ‘left’ are currently less tolerant then you clearly haven’t been following current affairs very closely over recent years.

    GP…as I remember it both sides of the example you quote - i.e. the miners and the police - were violent however, without going back forty odd years, I don’t recall anyone on the left trying to set fire to hotels full of migrants and I don’t recall Democrats in the U.S. storming Congress when Biden lost.
    I did respond but seems my response has either been excised or been subject to a technological gaffe

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    Quote Originally Posted by ramAnag View Post
    Agree about the choice of words but it’s the sentiment that matters.

    Tbf it’s something you’ve advocated for a while, although personally I find confronting racism and downright prejudice with politeness quite difficult. Of course we need to remember that those on the far right are generally amongst the least tolerant and most aggressive, so it works both ways.
    Trying again to promote a constructive discussion, you might like to read about ?The Paradox Of Tolerance?, it?s a subject I?ve researched/discussed a lot (I don?t ?do? politics other than here but I consider this subject theological), my view (in general) being ?you can?t fight intolerance with tolerance? but I?ve spent a lot of time listening to the opposing view

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    Quote Originally Posted by Andy_Faber View Post
    Trying again to promote a constructive discussion, you might like to read about ?The Paradox Of Tolerance?, it?s a subject I?ve researched/discussed a lot (I don?t ?do? politics other than here but I consider this subject theological), my view (in general) being ?you can?t fight intolerance with tolerance? but I?ve spent a lot of time listening to the opposing view
    Well if you really want a ‘constructive discussion’ rather than just being a bit rude then fair enough.

    So, your view is ‘you can’t fight intolerance with tolerance’. It’s a view I’m inclined to agree with although I’m a little surprised you share it (that’s not a criticism).
    Either way it’s a view that, interestingly perhaps, seems to be the opposite of the new AVAAZ approach I mentioned, which appears to condone attempts at understanding - if not tolerance - in preference to out and out condemnation.
    Last edited by ramAnag; 25-04-2025 at 07:20 PM.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ramAnag View Post
    Well if you really want a ‘constructive discussion’ rather than just being a bit rude then fair enough.

    So, your view is ‘you can’t fight intolerance with tolerance’. It’s a view I’m inclined to agree with although I’m a little surprised you share it (that’s not a criticism).
    Either way it’s a view that, interestingly perhaps, seems to be the opposite of the new AVAAZ approach I mentioned, which appears to condone attempts at understanding - if not tolerance - in preference to out and out condemnation.
    I?m all for trying to understand, I used the phrase ?sit in the other fellahs chair? a lot at work, BUT there comes a time when it becomes clear that a behaviour or action is part of the DNA of a person or group and if you?ve tried to accommodate/ live with/ excuse etc that behaviour repeatedly and just received more of the same, then a more combative/ less tolerant approach is IMO essential. ?The West? failed miserably with Hitler, and didn?t learn its lesson in time for Putin to reinstate a mini-Soviet Union, I can offer other current examples big and small. Not sure why you?re surprised that this is my view?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Andy_Faber View Post
    I?m all for trying to understand, I used the phrase ?sit in the other fellahs chair? a lot at work, BUT there comes a time when it becomes clear that a behaviour or action is part of the DNA of a person or group and if you?ve tried to accommodate/ live with/ excuse etc that behaviour repeatedly and just received more of the same, then a more combative/ less tolerant approach is IMO essential. ?The West? failed miserably with Hitler, and didn?t learn its lesson in time for Putin to reinstate a mini-Soviet Union, I can offer other current examples big and small. Not sure why you?re surprised that this is my view?
    Seeing as you’ve asked, let’s just say - without wishing to reopen old wounds - that, within the context of this forum, your regular reaction to the repetitive actions you speak of has been far from ‘combative’, rather one of failure to act, selectivity and appeasement.

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    Why is it that the press and right wing socials appear to be convinced Starmer has "given more fishing rights away"?

    I've not seen any of them quote a source.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ramAnag View Post
    Seeing as you’ve asked, let’s just say - without wishing to reopen old wounds - that, within the context of this forum, your regular reaction to the repetitive actions you speak of has been far from ‘combative’, rather one of failure to act, selectivity and appeasement.
    Sorry you?ve lost me

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    Quote Originally Posted by Andy_Faber View Post
    Sorry you?ve lost me
    Fair enough. Possibly too difficult to explain to you without reigniting previous fall outs which I have no wish to do.
    Suffice it to say that, in the tiny world of this forum, your levels of tolerance as a moderator are, imo, extremely selective.

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