Man Child on at 12

[Psaw]

The fourth former, Corbyn is on at 12, prime ministers questions. Already waiting in front of the tv with bunting, balloons, and a pint.

Comedy of the highest order will ensue, and another gob in the face of everything decent.

Buc, your niceness is weakness. And pathological.

[Buc]

Dont really know what you mean by pathological. Even after looking it up am still confused.
Am sure Corbyn will be good viewing and easy listening.
enjoy your beer.

[kel_]

If youse get an shift on Francis youse can of an **** before it starts. Watch that blood pressure though.

[Psaw]

Buc, considering you have asked, i will tell you. You grew up with an alcoholic, or alcoholics. You were taught that you were worthless. You arnt of course. You probably get validation from people, rather than finding it in yourself.
That means you only feel good when people are nice to you, and are devastated when there not. This means you are nice to everyone, regardless. You draw needy people to you so you can look after them. This leads you to vulnerability, and you will draw narcissists like moths to a flame. They will make you feel needed, then they will abuse you, then discard you if you rebel from there control. If your wife isnt a narcissist, you are lucky.
Its called co-dependancy, and its something you need to unlearn. It is possible.
Frank.

[Psaw]

I know your a wa nker kel, maybe we can share fantasies, speed, and intensity.

[kel_]

If you like, Frank. I'd be confused as to which purple heed to look at though I reckon.

[moorlad]

That's an bit off of Frank. Quite nasty really, Jimmy is one off of the nicest people I of ever met. He is just an genuinely pleasant character who loves to help people and see an smile on their faces. All off of us would do well to take an leaf out off of Jimmy's book. Unfortunately most off of us aren't anywhere near as decent as what he is.

[Buc]

Frank dont know why you do this..
Playing with folks minds sussing out their weaknesses and working on it..
I couldnt do that to people who have suffered you really need to think before you post sometimes as people have feelings.. Will say you have hurt my feelings with that post above.
But i forgive you.
John.

[Psaw]

My impulse was to help, not hurt you. Im going to explain the above. I genuinely want to help. There is a lot of information on co-dependancy and Narcissism on the internet and on you tube. If you are co-dependant, its not your fault. You have to understand both, they are intertwined.
If you are co-dependant, its highly likely, you wont know. Your life could be very bad, but you wont know because you have chosen a narcissist who treats you as your parents did. Your thoughts and feelings will NEVER be taken into account, you will be ridiculed, taken advantage of, emotionally abused, maybe physically abused.
Everything will be your fault. Everything. All of this will be ok. As you are.
You can ignore this if you want. The genie is out of the bottle though. Learn what co-dependancy is, its not shamefull. Its not your fault. Knowing is always better than being ignorant. Let me know how you get on, maybe away from this board.
Frank

[griff]

Is that what happened to you Frank?