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    Stalking!

    More cases highlighted on the news again today.

    As a family we’ve been going through this nightmare with an ex partner of my younger daughter.

    Just won’t take no for an answer despite her being with a new and very nice bloke.

    Won’t take no for an answer even though I got in his face and told him he needed to stay away or reap the consequences.

    I found out this week he’s been extorting money from my daughter by holding threats over her of an intimate nature even though she’s never got involved in that type of stuff, she’s worried he took photos when she was asleep when they were together or secretly.

    I hope none of your sons or daughters ever go through this.

    It’s hard to comprehend how a 37 year old man can’t take the hint when he’s told he’s no longer wanted as a partner.

    We have a epidemic of narcissists and sociopaths out there I’m afraid.

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    Quote Originally Posted by mickd1961 View Post
    More cases highlighted on the news again today.

    As a family we’ve been going through this nightmare with an ex partner of my younger daughter.

    Just won’t take no for an answer despite her being with a new and very nice bloke.

    Won’t take no for an answer even though I got in his face and told him he needed to stay away or reap the consequences.

    I found out this week he’s been extorting money from my daughter by holding threats over her of an intimate nature even though she’s never got involved in that type of stuff, she’s worried he took photos when she was asleep when they were together or secretly.

    I hope none of your sons or daughters ever go through this.

    It’s hard to comprehend how a 37 year old man can’t take the hint when he’s told he’s no longer wanted as a partner.

    We have a epidemic of narcissists and sociopaths out there I’m afraid.

    You need to report this to the police Mick as it won’t end well. She needs to take out a restraining order. There’s a multi millionaire where we live whose girlfriend ditched him and he circulated disgusting images of them to her family through her contacts. He got six months in HMP Hull but he seems to be doing it again to another girlfriend.

    You either get someone to seriously break his legs or contact the police - you can’t do both!

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    Has he provided any proof he even has these photos Mick? I think a restraining order is the answer, if his approach is verbal to try and avoid evidence then it needs to be recorded, then the police can seize his devices.

    Alternatively a hacker could be engaged to fk up his life by taking him offline, that'd keep him occupied - I think it's only the consequences of prison or something else really big that makes these head-cases stop.

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    Screenshot any and all messages. Record any and all telephone communications if possible. Report it to the police, provide them with the evidence and let them take it from there.

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    Quote Originally Posted by westcountryvillain View Post
    Has he provided any proof he even has these photos Mick? I think a restraining order is the answer, if his approach is verbal to try and avoid evidence then it needs to be recorded, then the police can seize his devices.

    Alternatively a hacker could be engaged to fk up his life by taking him offline, that'd keep him occupied - I think it's only the consequences of prison or something else really big that makes these head-cases stop.
    The police have been called in twice by my daughter and have done absolutely nothing.

    They keep saying that unless they catch him at her house or have text evidence there’s nothing they can do.

    As a family we have zero confidence in the police.

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    Quote Originally Posted by mickd1961 View Post
    The police have been called in twice by my daughter and have done absolutely nothing.

    They keep saying that unless they catch him at her house or have text evidence there’s nothing they can do.

    As a family we have zero confidence in the police.
    This is deeply disturbing to read Mick. As others have said restraining order etc but I’m afraid there’s only one way to sort this kind of man out. Your daughters safety and welfare is the only thing that’s important..my step daughter had a bully of a boyfriend some years back. I had to physically sort it in the end and luckily he got message. Best of luck to you and hope this scum bag gets what’s coming to him.

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